Today you get a sneak peek into the book EDucation: Lessons to Manage Erectile Dysfunction by Kelly Dawn & Rockie Dawn, a couple who have been down this road and want to help others going through the same. Be sure to follow the tour for more and best of luck in the giveaway!
No man likes to see a doctor at the best of times, but when the diagnosis is erectile dysfunction, it can feel like a life sentence.
There was a time not so long ago when talking about erectile dysfunction was taboo and rarely talked about in public. That began to change in the late '90s, when advertisements for Viagra began to air on TV. Today, the erectile dysfunction business is a multi-billion-dollar industry with great promises and limited advice.
The authors of EDucation are a real-life couple who had to deal with erectile dysfunction early on in their relationship. They found a few books on erectile dysfunction, but they were very clinical in nature, so they wrote their own book filled with practical advice, like whisky dick is real and having a few before the lights go out is a bad idea.
EDucation is a light-hearted, helpful and fun view of erectile dysfunction for men and their partners!
Remember: it's all in your head!
When Being Dirty Is a Good Thing
Dirty talk has typically been the domain of men. The nicest guys can be the filthiest guys in bed. Dirty talk can be pretty uncomfortable for a lot of women, but men generally respond well to it. This is where the psychological part comes into play. If you can get his brain in the mood, that’s half the battle. It’s all about getting the big and little head in sync. It might mean getting out of your comfort zone—just ask Kelly—but it yields results!
For the Partner
Dirty talk sounds more uncomfortable than it is. Really, it’s just asking a series of questions and letting him reply. Do you like my tits? Am I your bitch? The easiest way to start is by asking him questions and waiting for his response—he will do most of the talking.
If you get him aroused, you are going to benefit from it!
It will feel awkward at first, but with a little practice you will excel. Again, Kelly knows all about this.
Dirty Talk Rules—Agree to Boundaries
Dirty talk can be fun, but it can be hurtful if taken out of context. Couples should discuss their limits first. What words are allowed and what words aren’t? You need to decide this as a couple. Agree on boundaries up front so both people enjoy the experience.
Dirty talk will help get him in the mood, which will benefit you also. It’s another way to get the little and big head in sync. The more you turn him on, the quicker ED will leave the room. Don’t forget, anything you say you want messes with ED and chases it away.
We spent a long time talking and texting prior to meeting in person, and eventually, as our relationship grew, we were ready for intimacy. He was upfront from the beginning that he suffered from Erectile Dysfunction (ED). His honesty about ED helped us to deal with this and, as our relationship progressed, we found different solutions to improve our sex life. We also discovered that while there is a lot of information available about ED, most of the books on this topic are very clinical and serious. As time went on and we became better acquainted with ED, we decided that we wanted to take what we had learned and write a book that would be both helpful and humorous in order to help other couples.
You will notice that we have included a song at the beginning of each chapter. We felt the song lyrics had hidden meaning for us, from our point of view of ED. If you are not familiar with these songs, take time to listen to them and see if you can find or make the connection with Erectile Dysfunction.
It is important to note that we are not medical professionals, nor sex therapists, and do not offer a cure. We are here to give you fun and practical advice on how to live with ED and have a fulfilling sex life.
This book is meant for both men and women, whether new to the diagnosis of Erectile Dysfunction, or in the midst of dealing with it—married or otherwise. We hope it helps you find a new normalcy in the bedroom, and that you enjoy our straightforward and unconventional approach!
CONNECT WITH KELLY DAWN & ROCKIE DALE
WEBSITE: Kelly Dawn & Rockie Dale – Authors (educationed.ca) https://educationed.ca/
FACEBOOK: EDucation Book | Facebook https://www.facebook.com/ededucationbook
INSTAGRAM: Kelly Dawn & Rockie Dale (@ededucationbook) • Instagram photos and videos https://www.instagram.com/ededucationbook/
TWITTER: Kelly Dawn & Rockie Dale (@EDEducationbook) / Twitter https://twitter.com/EDEducationbook
GOODREADS: Kelly Dawn (Author of EDucation) | Goodreads https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/21850915.Kelly_Dawn
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